Posts By Lucia Grosaru

Mediums and Talking to the Dead: Benefits of a Hoax


I will start this post by saying that no matter what you’ve read or heard, there is so far no scientific evidence that living beings possess a soul and therefore there is also no subsequent proof that if we would indeed have a soul, that soul continues to exist after our death.

Even so, since ancient times, there have been claims that certain people can communicate with the soul of the departed, through various means. And many people chose not to pass up the opportunity of having a final or a series of talks with someone they love, but who is no longer with us.

“The Yellow Wallpaper” – Book Review


“The Yellow Wallpaper” is a short story written by Charlotte Perkins Gilman in 1892. It depicts the experience of a woman who, while spending Summer together with her husband and his sister in a beautiful colonial mansion, struggles to deal with the monotonous daily life she is constrained to live as a result of a resting cure prescribed to her as a mean of treatment for her “nervous depression – a slight hysterical tendency”.

“Flatland: A Romance of Many Dimensions” – Book Review


I could not believe how flat I found “Flatland”… at least in the beginning. This 19th century satirical novella is a wonderful depiction of the social shortcomings of the Victorian Era and a skilled mathematical introduction into the world of multi-dimensions, but regarding the writing style, I found it rather monotonous.

Literary, it’s a flop. Philosophically, a masterpiece. Psychologically, a nightmare.

On ‘Meeting’ Caitlyn Jenner

I need to convey right from the start that this is not a psychological interpretation of anything, just my reaction and perspective after seeing the preview for the next Vanity Fair issue that features on the cover a new, but at the same time, familiar face, Caitlyn Jenner, previously known as Bruce Jenner.

The magazine’s 22-page cover story includes photos of Caitlyn taken by legendary Annie Leibovitz and new details on the transition.

I will keep this post short, for I only want to express some of my thoughts and feelings regarding the transformation we publicly witnessed in the last year or so.

Scientology Course: Scapegoating 101

Critical Thinking Applied to Church of Scientology Promo for one of their Free Online Courses

Some time ago I came across the following video posted on the official YouTube Channel of The Church of Scientology. From what I understand, the series of videos is part of a “giving back to the community” policy, which at first may sound OK, but in my opinion, this is a rather poisonous gift they’re giving.

So, The Church of Scientology provides some Free Courses for those willing to improve their life in different areas – human interactions, marriage, education, work, etc -, but what kind of skills are they conveying?

A Truly Biased TED Talk: The Bad Debunking of 10 Alleged Myths about Psychology

A few days ago I watched a TED Talk called “10 Myths about Psychology, Debunked”, by Ben Ambridge, and although it’s less than 15 minutes long, I had to split it into two viewing sessions because the first 3 minutes were such a load of false and random information, that I needed a break to process what I just witnessed under the label of “Education”.

The Guru Fallacy

@DeepakChopra: Critical Thinking. You’re Doing it Wrong.

His tweets, my tweets and the fallacies in-between.

Since I am involved in promoting Critical Thinking as both concept and set of abilities, I thought that a short analysis of the recent small interactions between me and Deepak Chopra that took place on Twitter may be a good example on how to deal with manipulation and pseudoscience by means of reason.

Psychological Aspects In Which Religion Fails To Support Believers

Like it or not, most of us are being exposed to at least one main religious belief system from a very early age. Like everything else that occurs in our early childhood, religious beliefs will shape our development, meaning they will impact our personality, self-image, motivation and desires, behaviors and affectivity.

Although I do believe everyone is entitled to their own belief system and that there are objective pathological situations in which these beliefs are not to be challenged, I also consider it useful to acknowledge the kind of influence religious beliefs can have on the individual’s inner dynamic and interpersonal relationships.

Critical Thinking May Not Make You Popular, But It Does Make You Free

When it comes to bold life choices, there’s always a win some, lose some situation. Personal Development is one such choice. You deliberately make a decision to change yourself in order to live a more authentic and purposeful life. Most of the time, this process involves changing the way you think or behave, and emotional changes soon follow as a result of the first (or often even guide the process by letting the individual know how close they are to their goal, their Authentic Self and the life they want).

Once you start the process, there’s no going back. Once you’ve changed, you propagate your new Self into the world and therefore,

On The Limits of Belief

I’m an advocate of Critical Thinking and Assertiveness. Thus, I am a huge supporter of the freedom of thought and the freedom of speech. Freedom of thought includes the right of all human beings to refer to whatever belief system they consider as valid (what valid is, that’s another topic). Furthermore, one is entitled to act upon one’s belief – receive information, be in touch with others that share the specific belief system, engage in common actions and maybe even try to convey the message towards people outside the main belief group. As you’ve probably noticed, this kind of right (like anything that has to do with assertiveness) revolves around the individual and relations are created based on similarities and shared purpose. However, we all step outside the circle so to speak, and come in contact with various people whose views on life do not resemble our own.